While in LA with my niece and nephew I decided to start a positive reinforcement program with them. They are way into pretend play right now and Bailey totally loves being a princess. I told them that there are many thing princes and princesses do and do not do. We made a list together and assigned point values to each item. I made them a website where we can track their points and told them that if they earn 500 points (after realizing that they rack up about 50 points a day on a normal day) we will reward them with special prince and princess days where they get special attention. Check it out and feel free to use the idea!!!